gAMES

I never wanted to play the game in the first place so to recognize that any reaction that I'd do is still playing his game, helped me to drop any emotional attachment I had to winning with the narc..
Once I no longer had to get him to accept what I was saying (me winning), I no longer felt a need to attach to anything he said.. He's a narc and all narcs lie,, I'll never get a narc to stop lying, true story..